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It's pretty obvious you're about to hook up for the first timeand you feel all types of ways. Of course.

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Is this just going to be a fun experience for the night, or are you looking for a long-term partner? Perhaps your fantasy is an older guy or someone who has really long hair or someone who wears cowboy boots.

2. be honest about your intentions.

hopk And don't feel weird about asking your partner what they like, either. Not sure why men keep murdering us; it would be great if they could tuck it in. But you might also be worried about making some kind of "mistake. And you certainly don't have to get too creative, or teach them something new — like some weird position involving a couch — if you don't want to.

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I don't think I'll ever be able to hook up with a stranger from an app on a whim, but I'll also never climb Mt. So give yourself a little confidence boost beforehandperhaps by popping off to the bathroom to give yourself a bit of a pep talk. Caring Too Much About Being "Good" While everyone wants to be "good in bed," a healthy and exciting hook up is so not about that.

It can be a lot to think about, as you try to balance all your thoughts, along with what you're doing, and what your partner is doing. Avoid them, and you should have yourself one heck of a time. No strings attached. Pu them a clear message right away. For those of you swiping right in preparation for a spontaneous sexy time, I applaud you. Greene says that you need to remind yourself of this, too.

Now, don't forget to process what just went down, including how it felt, and whether you might like to do it again.

If you met this person on a dating app, tell your friend or roommate, or mom their name, where you plan to meet, and call them again once you get home safely. A nice little romp doesn't have to be any different.

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Going In With Unclear Expectations Shutterstock If you're invested in this person and would like to see the relationship go somewhere, relationship expert Kailen Rosenberg tells Bustle, it'll be even more important to check in with I need a hook up beforehand, lest anyone's feelings get holk. And that makes a lot of sense. This was a person who was looking for a casual hookup, hoo marriage and babies.

The world is unfortunately a very scary place. Try reciting a few self-esteem mantrasor showing up in an outfit that makes you feel particularly great.

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After all, "nobody is supposed to know anybody's body yet," psychoanalyst Dr. If you're going to feel "less than" or value your body less after letting a stranger have at it, know that maybe this isn't the right move for you and that's totally OK.

On demand. Additionally, Greene says that neer should be prepared for all different responses from "all types of guys, some that may be quite kinky or aversive. Unless you're being awesome and pointing out what you like in beddon't feel like you have to spend the night telling your partner what's what.

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The good news is that you're using the right app for that Tinder. Whatever that may be. Speaking up becomes particularly crucial, though, if something is making you II. That goes without saying.

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It's pretty obvious you're about to hook up for the first timeand you feel all types of ways. But if you do hesitate, keep in mind that sharing what you enjoy will help to ensure you both have a good time, relationship expert David Bennett tells Bustle, which can definitely serve as motivation.

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If both of you are II it, then go for it, but don't feel pressured to wow them, or try funky positions, or be over the top. Just remember that you can immediately un-match the a-holes.

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If you're looking to get it in tonight, be straightforward with your match. However you define "hook up" — a one night stand, the first time you have sex with a partner -to-be, etc. Don't you kind of wish they would u; let you know sooner? You can, however, go into a hook up knowing that your needs are important, too, and try to make them a priority.

But it doesn't newd you have to have a bad time.

You can start with anything from a more tepid "what are you doing tonight" or an unmistakeable "want to meet up for sex? People get their groceries and their rides to the airport and even their sex toys from the internet.

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Paulette Kouffman Shermantells Bustle. Whether it's before sex or during, if something pops into your mind that feels worth sharing, let it be known. You first hook up can simply be a time to get out of your head and do whatever feels right. As Saurborn says, "The absolute simplest way to protect yourself whether boy or girl, gay or straight is to bring a condom or two with you.

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Swipe on someone who excites you. While you don't have to map out the entire relationship's future before hooking up, you might take a quick moment to get on the sameand ensure you're both thinking roughly the same thing.

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Can you even peer pressure yourself? Everybody's different. Yes, I'm an alarmist. If it's weighing heavy on your mind, let them know. Go into the evening knowing what you'll feel comfy doing, as well as what's going to be off limits.